Making It Through the Awesome Times in Your Marriage

The conventional approach is to get  help when your marriage has trouble.  But why worry about your marriage when its awesome?  Its already awesome.

Wrong.

When your marriage is awesome is precisely when you should be working to make your marriage better.  You are that close.

The conventional approach seems to me to like a horticulturist with plenty of tips on how not to fall off the ladder, but nothing more, as if being on the ladder were the summum bonum.  It is not.  Stretch out to the edge of your fingertips to pick the fruit.