Education
In a world where people are having trouble ‘adulting’, and where both lower and higher education are in complete shambles, it behooves us to understand what ideal education looks like. And what it is for.
First and foremost, education is a religious duty. We can not be saved in ignorance. The saving truths of the gospel are the primary truths for us to learn.
Further, this spiritual foundation gives us greater insight – “Where there is no vision, the people perish”.
There is something appealing about a world of pure ideas, where we can focus on learning alone, like monks and nuns. But we do not exist in a Platonic universe. We must understand the world we are in. We must understand the human condition, and not merely our own bubble. It is interesting to notice that the most profound sections of the D&C, will end with discussing mundane details – individuals called to repent, or called to missions or specific tasks.
In this way, missions are invaluable education, because you really see people unvarnished and their real earthy problems. The Oracle at Delphi is supposed to have said, “Know thyself”. That isn’t terrible advice, but there are a lot more people out there than just yourself!
There is a particular kind of education we call marriage and children. It quickly becomes clear that the opposite sex is nuts. Men and women (Women are nuts!… Men are nuts!) – we must understand each other and learn how to work with each other on an intimate level. This level of understanding takes time and work. In this sense, gay marriage is both highly understandable (easier to see eye to eye, etc) and more tragic, because part of you that needs to grow, is left to atrophy.
Raising children is an experience that pulls you even further outside of yourself. You have to really understand another human. And love them and teach them. Doing this changes you.
Part of the increase in the mental health issues, stems from a mental health diet low on relationships and focused on pleasure. The equivalent in physical health would be too little exercise and too much sugar. This line of thought should be fleshed out, but I will leave that to interested reader.
One of the reasons we came to Earth was to experience mortality and physical bodies. There is a danger of too much screen time, of trying to live something like we lived in the Premortal Existance. We need dirt under our fingernails, sand in our shoes and the occasional sunburn. We need to experience and master the appetites of the body. We need to struggle with the problems of life. Even the Savior didn’t start his ministry until he had lived 30 years as a common laborer.
This places two opposing demands on us. First, we need to provide for ourselves and our family. Money isn’t something we can ignore. But nor is it something you want to obsess over. There is a fantastic quote by Brigham Young comparing this Earth to a school, and comparing learning solely about about money, to taking classes in Lunch. Lunch is necessary, but there is a lot more to life.
God told Adam and Eve, “Of every tree of the Garden thou mayest freely eat…”. There are a world of things to learn and explore.
Academics – finally! What subjects should we study? D&C 88 gives some good specifics, to study “even by learning, and also by faith”.
Pres. John Taylor said,
“We want … to be alive in the cause of education. We are commanded of the Lord to obtain knowledge, both by study and by faith, seeking it out of the best books [see D&C 88:118].”
Self-reliance gives us things to learn. As does the command to make our own clothes – a commandment we should probably apply more widely. Our pioneer history would certainly back that up.
Lastly, the Spirit teaches us.
Joseph Smith said,
“The best way to obtain truth and wisdom is not to ask it from books, but to go to God in prayer, and obtain divine teaching.”
The Spirit will guide us to things we never could know otherwise.
This gives us a lifetime of things to study. And it is a very different education from what the World thinks.
And I suspect there is more I could add. But as I said, this will take a lifetime to begin to learn.
Rozy
May 9, 2023
Thanks for this thought provoking post! I wish I could have better conveyed these thoughts and ideas to our son who recently took his life. He struggled with understanding the point of our existence, among other things.
I want to add my two cents about the commandment to make our own clothes. (I may have said this before.) Years ago I studies everything I could find in the scriptures about clothing and modesty, etc. When I got to D&C 42:40-41 “And again, thou shalt not be proud in thy heart; let all thy garments be plain, and their beauty the beauty of the work of thine own hands; And let all things be done in cleanliness before me” I had these insights: the word plain doesn’t seem to mean unadorned, or dowdy; rather it means to me clear, or obvious, referring to the fact that our clothing should make it clear to others that we are covenant keepers, and followers of Jesus Christ. The part about the work of our own hands means to me that when the fashions of the world are incompatible with the standards of modesty and purity of covenant keeping people then we should be able and willing to make our own clothes.
I totally agree that marriage and raising children is the greatest education and character building exercise we can engage in during our time in the mortal boarding school. I know that for those who do not have that opportunity the Lord provides other means of learning. I feel sorry for those (like one of our sons and his wife) who choose not to have children, because they miss out on life’s greatest joys! Nothing compares with seeing the fruits of my labors as a mother. I look forward to eternal increase as a fullness of joy.
Zen
May 9, 2023
I raised my daughters as a single parent almost until they left home. It felt like a compressed learning experience, trying to be both parents.
I think each of us have unique things to learn and experience. And for me, that was one of those.
E.C.
May 9, 2023
As for education, my entire life has been a silent rebellion against any kind of systematic learning. No, I guess ‘rebellion’ isn’t the right kind of word, because every time I’ve tried to do things the ‘normal’ way, there’s been stumbling blocks in my way that turned out to be signposts pointing me to . . .well, I’m still not sure where.
My patriarchal blessing gives some clues, but is frustratingly cryptic on what that means for the endgame of a family of my own or steady work at a normal job – you know, things that tend to grant long-term stability. Which I want desperately to have, but which seems unattainable at the moment.
But here’s the thing: I’ve learned what a stupor of thought feels like, because that happened every time I tried more traditional methods of education. And then the Lord pointed me to a very specific area of study, which I’m still frankly confused about, but which has required only that I build my hoard of books out in a certain direction. I doubt I’ll ever get any kind of fancy certificate proving I know things, but just like everything else in my life I guess I’ve become a quiet walking rejection of weird societal norms.
G.
May 9, 2023
Marvelous, Zen. U have no idea how good this is.